Recently, to meet gays has become much easier. Now you do not need to guess the orientation of any guy or for a date in private clubs, is just to go online.
Without ads
If you remember, but some 20 years ago homosexuals were acquainted with ads in the press, now "paper" ads are replaced by the Internet. Suggestions about finding casual sex are sent on a special app or on boards BBS.
To expect a serious relationship from these ads is not worth it. If a young person first specifies the size of the penis and then the height, weight and age, it is foolish to expect that he is interested in your personality.
There is a possibility that is muscular, handsome with pictures you will meet an ugly lonely middle-aged man.
Beware of scams. Casual acquaintance can not only Rob you but also to be a juvenile blackmailer.
In large cities, are criminal groups which include teenagers. On Dating sites they place ads on behalf of 18-year-olds. In fact, these young men have not yet reached the age of majority. During the meeting, the attacker would have to say that he wants to visit you. When he succeeds, he will in detail tell that he's only 15, and you have to answer on all severity of the criminal code for sexual abuse of minors. Soon at the threshold of the apartment will appear to his accomplices that "help" you to part with money and valuable things.
Beware of homophobic
Getting acquainted in a Network, you can run and homophobic. Some use the platform for gay Dating to find a potential victim. Do not hurry to disclose the real name and the name of the first comer. Personal data detractors can use against you.
It is worth considering that for pretty photos can hide the real maniacs or too persistent suitors. And if you hide their orientation and live with relatives, to their attention a maniac can reward not only you but also your loved ones.
During a holiday in any Muslim country on the acquaintance in a Network it is better to forget - it might be too dangerous. In many countries in the Middle East and North Africa, gay sex is a criminal offence. Also, do not give yourself in social networks. If your page can easily determine that you are gay before you ride in a homophobic country is better to close it to public access.
Rules for safe Dating
To protect yourself while Dating, you should use a few simple rules.
Explore other social network page
If you have decided to look for a guy on social networks, do not use your main page. It is better to register another account in which to specify only minimal information about yourself. When Dating on the gay sites or applications is to fill out the profile so this information was impossible to calculate.
Search for mutual friends
If you meet in social networks, view a page guy: maybe you and him will be friends. Try to find out from them what they know about this guy. You also need to pay attention to his subscriptions and interest. If a potential friend, for example, is a community of homophobes, most likely, the meeting does not end nice.
First date in a public place
The first meeting should take place in a well-known public place. This can be a cafe, a shopping Mall, a crowded street, for example, near the metro station, but in any case not near your home.
Trust but verify
At the first meeting, if possible, observe the guy. If he came alone and does not cause you any suspicion, it is safe to approach him. If, however, you will notice that the guy is too young, or your intuition will tell you that nothing good is not over, it is better to turn around and leave.
Come home one
After the first date, even if a new friend has shown you, it is better to leave on neutral territory, not at the entrance of your home. On the first day of meeting to advertise their place of residence is not necessary. Also better to refrain from going on a "coffee" meeting a new friend.
More ask, less tell
On a first date don't reveal information that can be used against you. What is your occupation, but does not specify, where exactly you work. Do not try to impress the young man with his generosity. It may cost you your life.
And most importantly, don't get hung up on looking for a guy
Of course, wait for the perfect Prince will find you myself silly, but to look actively for it in the apps, social networks and every day to date - not a solution. In gay communities, even in big cities, everyone knows each other, excessive activity can push it away from you good guys.
Without ads
If you remember, but some 20 years ago homosexuals were acquainted with ads in the press, now "paper" ads are replaced by the Internet. Suggestions about finding casual sex are sent on a special app or on boards BBS.
To expect a serious relationship from these ads is not worth it. If a young person first specifies the size of the penis and then the height, weight and age, it is foolish to expect that he is interested in your personality.
There is a possibility that is muscular, handsome with pictures you will meet an ugly lonely middle-aged man.
Beware of scams. Casual acquaintance can not only Rob you but also to be a juvenile blackmailer.
In large cities, are criminal groups which include teenagers. On Dating sites they place ads on behalf of 18-year-olds. In fact, these young men have not yet reached the age of majority. During the meeting, the attacker would have to say that he wants to visit you. When he succeeds, he will in detail tell that he's only 15, and you have to answer on all severity of the criminal code for sexual abuse of minors. Soon at the threshold of the apartment will appear to his accomplices that "help" you to part with money and valuable things.
Beware of homophobic
Getting acquainted in a Network, you can run and homophobic. Some use the platform for gay Dating to find a potential victim. Do not hurry to disclose the real name and the name of the first comer. Personal data detractors can use against you.
It is worth considering that for pretty photos can hide the real maniacs or too persistent suitors. And if you hide their orientation and live with relatives, to their attention a maniac can reward not only you but also your loved ones.
During a holiday in any Muslim country on the acquaintance in a Network it is better to forget - it might be too dangerous. In many countries in the Middle East and North Africa, gay sex is a criminal offence. Also, do not give yourself in social networks. If your page can easily determine that you are gay before you ride in a homophobic country is better to close it to public access.
Rules for safe Dating
To protect yourself while Dating, you should use a few simple rules.
Explore other social network page
If you have decided to look for a guy on social networks, do not use your main page. It is better to register another account in which to specify only minimal information about yourself. When Dating on the gay sites or applications is to fill out the profile so this information was impossible to calculate.
Search for mutual friends
If you meet in social networks, view a page guy: maybe you and him will be friends. Try to find out from them what they know about this guy. You also need to pay attention to his subscriptions and interest. If a potential friend, for example, is a community of homophobes, most likely, the meeting does not end nice.
First date in a public place
The first meeting should take place in a well-known public place. This can be a cafe, a shopping Mall, a crowded street, for example, near the metro station, but in any case not near your home.
Trust but verify
At the first meeting, if possible, observe the guy. If he came alone and does not cause you any suspicion, it is safe to approach him. If, however, you will notice that the guy is too young, or your intuition will tell you that nothing good is not over, it is better to turn around and leave.
Come home one
After the first date, even if a new friend has shown you, it is better to leave on neutral territory, not at the entrance of your home. On the first day of meeting to advertise their place of residence is not necessary. Also better to refrain from going on a "coffee" meeting a new friend.
More ask, less tell
On a first date don't reveal information that can be used against you. What is your occupation, but does not specify, where exactly you work. Do not try to impress the young man with his generosity. It may cost you your life.
And most importantly, don't get hung up on looking for a guy
Of course, wait for the perfect Prince will find you myself silly, but to look actively for it in the apps, social networks and every day to date - not a solution. In gay communities, even in big cities, everyone knows each other, excessive activity can push it away from you good guys.
